It essentially makes me feel like I am an evil, immoral, selfish imdividual who god hates (even though "evil" is really a religious term, and I am not religious, even though I don't do terrible things, even though I care about others so much that I am remaining a JW mainly for other people). I hate not being able to express my feelings, not just about supposed gender roles, but about many aspects of life. I think I am fair and accepting about both sexes, and all sexual orientations, and about many other things, such as a person's religion or the lack thereof.
And yet in this religion it is veiwed as a bad thing, a sin, to accept or even tolerate these things without prejudice. If I don't believe that anyone who isn't like me will die at Armageddon, then there is something wrong with me.
Seeing women in my congregation wearing head coverings when translating a brother's talk, seeing them have to sit when giving a demonstration "not a "talk"), seeing the strict dress code imposed on them...angers and huurts me. I hate reading the WTBTS's highly misogynistic articles concerning women. Having to be "under subjection" is what pisses me off more than anything. That should be decided by the women.She should decide what SHE wants.
Knowing that there must be some men who would really prefer not to have to be the "head", and would rather work WITH their wives rather than making all the rules, also frustrates me. Why should one gender be forced into that role? It is completely unfair imo. And is it so wrong to not have "strong masculine qualities"? Can a man not be more feminine if it suits him? Must he fit one stereotype?
END OF RANT.
I'm sorry, I just needed to get all of that out.
Are there any feminists here who used to be JWs? Anyone who is of a different sexual orientaion? Or anything else?